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B.J. Porter

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B.J. Porter last won the day on November 7

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    On my boat, somewhere...
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  1. The big swinging dick problem

    Yes he did. Trust me on that. Yeah...if he didn't like the attention he would have made sure the shirt got on before he walked back inside.
  2. Community Reputation Points

    Changed with you, or changed with some of the asshats on this forum? A few of your worst attackers have either buggered off or been banned.
  3. Roy Moore 3rd rail?

    Not a terribly effective way to invoke him. The @ sign tagging works better, e.g. "Hey @MR.CLEAN"
  4. The big swinging dick problem

    Given that she was fired for cause, there was no reason for this other fellow to invent the story. What could it possibly serve? It didn't come from him the day after she was gone, it only came weeks later. Also, what he said about her behavior was not inconsistent with other things observed; e.g. it was an extension and magnification of the more public "joking" that was going on with her and others.
  5. The big swinging dick problem

    I had a woman I had to fire for theft, misappropriation, of funds, lying to me, etc. in my company of half a dozen employees. I only found out after the fact that she was harassing the crap out of one of the guys in the office. Making him REALLY uncomfortable with aggressive invites and comments about coming over to her house for a 3-way with her husband, calls for such outside the office, etc. She was quite an attractive woman, fun to be around, a bit flirty but with a good sense of humor. Of course, the guy never said a thing to me until after I'd fired her for other reasons.
  6. Community Reputation Points

    She must have been active in 2010 when we had the system last enabled. We probably a few misogynistic assholes that took the time and socks to systematically downvote her. If you remember, someone even took the time to clone her profile and pretend to be her. A someone who may be into gang downvoting with sock brigades, wood be my guess.
  7. Community Reputation Points

    That’s not from the reputation system, that’s all the cougars. I was talking about DL, not DW.
  8. I got divorced today.

    CL, Having spent time with both of you, I assure you that you would get along very well in person. BJ is pretty rational in person for a flaming liberal. All y'all are making all misty-eyed over here.
  9. Next up! Al Franken

    Interesting take, from someone that hates Franken... https://www.mediaite.com/online/i-loathe-al-franken-but-it-sure-seems-like-he-is-getting-totally-railroaded/
  10. I'd vote for this guy!

    Except this clown is a Democrat. I don't think Trumpsters will cross party lines like that unless he grabs some teenaged poon at a rally and maybe thumps his chest a little more to get the street cred.
  11. Next up! Al Franken

    They haven't changed that much in 30/40 years. I'm 51, and when I was 20 sexual harassment was something I was very cognizant of. I have a very, very distinct memory of a lovely lass that came to work for me on the dinner shift I supervised in college. Green eyes to die for, cute as hell and really nice. And she reported directly to me, her boss, who was responsible for her evaluations and job assignments on our work-study jobs, who could also discipline her or fire her. She hated working in food service though, so when she quit I asked her out. But not until she quit. (She shot me down...politely.) Way way back in the dark ages of the late 80s, even then, in the deep recesses of my primitive cultural thinking, I was COMPLETELY aware that asking her out, even flirting with her heavily, would be WAY out of line when she worked for me. We knew the rules...the dining halls where we worked were very target-rich environments and students were constantly meeting and hooking up. Hell, I got to know my wife because she supervised Mon-Fri dinner and was the boss on Wed-Sun. I dated more than a few other supervisors and workers from other shifts. Two fellow supervisors ended up getting married before they graduated (and among the first of my peers divorced...). There was a lot of flirting and workplace antics. But we knew, even then, that you didn't hit on your own staff. It just wasn't smart or wise and was totally inappropriate. Even for a stupid part-time cafeteria work-study job making $4.00 an hour ladling out turkey tetrazzini. If memory serves it was part of our Supervisor training. This stuff is not new. The only thing that is really new is men getting called out on it, and women speaking out and getting supported. We had pigs back then, and we have pigs now. That hasn't changed in the least. And I agree...in the 70's people were ignorant as fuck about homosexuality and gays. Most of us outgrew that.
  12. I'd vote for this guy!

    Let's be honest.... It's not always the guy who hits on the woman. Of course it's not. The vast majority of male-female interactions are to some degree successful and inoffensive. We can survive as a species without rape and harassment though. But that has fuck-all to do with this tone-deaf clown.
  13. I'd vote for this guy!

    You know he's a Demoncrat, right? And he can fuck right off speaking for " all heterosexual males," he doesn't speak for me. He sounds completely tone deaf and like he's part of the problem.
  14. Baldness anarchy.

    Bait vending machines are a recent development. We didn't have those when I was a kid looking to drop a hook into anything bigger than a standing puddle. Of course, we dug up a lot of our own bait, being broke kids and all.
  15. The best sailing film for a long time

    holy fuck did that suck. stunned is right. We watched that as a family on the boat. I forget where we were at the time, it was definitely after we sailed to the Marquesas with a broken autopilot. The kids were rolling their eyes and raging almost as much as I was.