I don't know what the EU's stance is, here in Germany where I have been living the last 18 years the legalization movement is getting stronger. Medical has been legalized but very very few can get a prescriptions. Big differences between the states, very conservative Bavaria and the East or more open states like NRW. Several city's are starting to experiment with legal sales but still have a ways to go.I think France and Spain are still pretty far away from it but it's everywhere. The legal US states are certainly showing the way.
Things in The Netherlands are pretty much the same. A few years ago they passed a law that you had to be a resident to get the WietPass to go in a Coffeeshop but most city's wide not to enact it. Certainly most of the bigger city's, the Randstad city's Amsterdam, Utrecht, Rotterdam it's bushiness as usual. I was just in Lylestad sailing, there the Shops are closed to tourists. A few km's away in Almere or Enkhuizen they're open.
I wonder how is it in Portugal, all is decriminalized but how is Cannabis.