In practice, it's much better to view gribs in a navigation program, rather than using a separate grib viewer like ugrib. that way, you can advance the gribs, and make your route on the same screen
I am going to suggest a slightly different perspective, at least for cruising. I don't often use routing software at sea. I usually just flip thru the gribs (using viewfax - a standalone grib viewer). I don't like sitting at the nav station staring at a computer screen at sea, and I can usually get all I need to know by flipping quickly thru the gribs. I know how far we will go each day in screen distance so can just move my eye along, and I occasionally jot down a lat/lat long way point to aim at, if there is something to go for (or away from).
Very rarely, when we are navigating quite close around a fast moving feature (usually a low), I will pull up the routing perhaps 24 & 12 hrs in advance to see when it's says to tack or jybe to best effect.
A lot of the Bermuda racers I know use the route movement as you describe (to see where they will be as they flip thru the gribs) but don't use the optimized routings. They have found the routings are too often driven too far off the GC course by small differences in forecast winds that are not actually there. They prefer their judgement looking at the wind and current gribs, and real time sat pictures. That's a very short passage for routing, as a cruiser I would wait for a decent weather window and then just go for it (looking at the gribs)
I do use the routing programs when ashore looking for a weather window. I can develop a detailed baseline plan for the whole passage, and can look closely for any things I should watch for as future developments, and it helps to explain/discuss the plan with Beth, and I am not fatigued and don't mind looking at the screen.
Ok, out with it- whose polars are faster? 
I am faster daysailing (Better sail trim, sail selection and helming) and she is faster on long passages (higher work rate when tired)