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#1 Remodel

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Posted 25 July 2013 - 04:49 PM

Have any of you ever experienced this with a grown woman?

 



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:07 PM

Wholly cripes that was just like my ex wife!!! Except she would go batshit crazy about running out of beer or cigs if I didn't go get her more. What a train wreck.

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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:29 PM

What a fucking nut case.!!!!!



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:36 PM

I dare him to close his eyes and try to go to sleep once she finds out he posted this on YouTube.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:54 PM

Looks like a good candidate for Wesley....

Maybe

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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:54 PM

I think I dated her once or twice.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:55 PM

used to have one like that. would get herself so worked up that she'd literally pass out cold or go into a full blown panic attack and think she was having a heart attack. had damn near monthly trips to the ER. i could go on.

 

special times, they were, very special times.

 

hope he gets out soon, cause it's not going to get better. 



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 05:56 PM

Once again I am encouraged by something posted here to send my wife flowers

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Posted 25 July 2013 - 06:08 PM

I'll take her out on the lake--deepest part and leave her there.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 06:20 PM

used to have one like that. would get herself so worked up that she'd literally pass out cold or go into a full blown panic attack and think she was having a heart attack. had damn near monthly trips to the ER. i could go on.

 

special times, they were, very special times.

 

hope he gets out soon, cause it's not going to get better. 

 

Whatever he does, do not have any kids with her. I'm tied to my crazy-ass ex because of our son. My ex throws those temper tantrums with my son, thank God my boy is smart enough not play her game or act like her.

Its not going to get any better.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 06:24 PM

what's the old saying (said in a deep Clint Eastwood drawl)?


"Son, never stick your dick in crazy"



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 06:24 PM

Watch Bus Driver's weather report thread yet?

 

I think we should lock these two women in an un-air-conditioned room together and see who comes out alive.....



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 06:42 PM

I like this guy.....He can't stop laughing.

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Posted 25 July 2013 - 06:45 PM

used to have one like that. would get herself so worked up that she'd literally pass out cold or go into a full blown panic attack and think she was having a heart attack. had damn near monthly trips to the ER. i could go on.

 

special times, they were, very special times.

 

hope he gets out soon, cause it's not going to get better. 

 

Whatever he does, do not have any kids with her. I'm tied to my crazy-ass ex because of our son. My ex throws those temper tantrums with my son, thank God my boy is smart enough not play her game or act like her.

Its not going to get any better.

 

+1



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 07:35 PM

I saw the title to this thread and thought it was about my ex girlfriend.  Close enough.

 

Here's some background on the crazy one in the video:

http://gawker.com/ma...pload-868449134

 

http://gawker.com/te...ad-be-896965566



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 07:47 PM

Fuck!



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 07:49 PM

And, the only winners will be the lawyers.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 08:31 PM

Honestly, that woman sounds no more of an asswipe than her husband.

 

Why would the fucknut want to get his tires rotated with his wife in the truck? A man does that kind of stuff on a weekday after work not on valuable weekend time. She's begging him for a pack of smokes and get to the lake and he's being a dick.

 

She's losing her temper and he just needs to give her a few kind words to help her chill out, but won't do it, just keeps pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. He might be a wonderful husband, but this clip doesn't support him as being anything other than a passive-aggressive doucheplug.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 08:38 PM

Just overall bad  -

 

Just think, some parents would not blink if the kid puts her feet up on the overhead and screams /  whines on and on and the kid thinks that 'it' is ok to do that any time they want.

 

I do not think it is fair to tape and post her vid unless showing it to a judge but, that is just me.

 

Sail safely!



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 08:41 PM

Honestly, that woman sounds no more of an asswipe than her husband.

 

Why would the fucknut want to get his tires rotated with his wife in the truck? A man does that kind of stuff on a weekday after work not on valuable weekend time. She's begging him for a pack of smokes and get to the lake and he's being a dick.

 

She's losing her temper and he just needs to give her a few kind words to help her chill out, but won't do it, just keeps pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. He might be a wonderful husband, but this clip doesn't support him as being anything other than a passive-aggressive doucheplug.

 

Agreed, he's baiting her like a champ.  They deserve each other.

On the other hand, she may be along for the ride because she's one of those "we should do everything together!" types.

 

Another reason she may be along for the ride...

roughly 3:30 in, I'm not sure I heard correctly,   she needs to get her car's oil changed, but can't do it herself "because of the interlock thing" and needs to ask someone to help.

 

"interlock" as in "court-mandated mobile breathalyzer that requires you to blow non-drunk air before the car will start"?

 

hmmmmmm  



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 08:43 PM

I dunno...the whole thing just makes me feel so much better about my life...



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 08:48 PM

Honestly, that woman sounds no more of an asswipe than her husband.

 

Why would the fucknut want to get his tires rotated with his wife in the truck? A man does that kind of stuff on a weekday after work not on valuable weekend time. She's begging him for a pack of smokes and get to the lake and he's being a dick.

 

She's losing her temper and he just needs to give her a few kind words to help her chill out, but won't do it, just keeps pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. He might be a wonderful husband, but this clip doesn't support him as being anything other than a passive-aggressive doucheplug.

 

Agreed, he's baiting her like a champ.  They deserve each other.

On the other hand, she may be along for the ride because she's one of those "we should do everything together!" types.

 

Another reason she may be along for the ride...

roughly 3:30 in, I'm not sure I heard correctly,   she needs to get her car's oil changed, but can't do it herself "because of the interlock thing" and needs to ask someone to help.

 

"interlock" as in "court-mandated mobile breathalyzer that requires you to blow non-drunk air before the car will start"?

 

hmmmmmm  

 

Nice catch on the "interlock".  I heard that, didn't know what is was, and haven't had time to look it up.

 

They should stay together.  Why foist either of them on the general population?



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 09:14 PM

Honestly, that woman sounds no more of an asswipe than her husband.

 

Why would the fucknut want to get his tires rotated with his wife in the truck? A man does that kind of stuff on a weekday after work not on valuable weekend time. She's begging him for a pack of smokes and get to the lake and he's being a dick.

 

She's losing her temper and he just needs to give her a few kind words to help her chill out, but won't do it, just keeps pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. He might be a wonderful husband, but this clip doesn't support him as being anything other than a passive-aggressive doucheplug.

 

in complete fucking agreement.

 

wife would probably good for one wild weekend using a carefully constructed alias, while the guy looks like he could suck the life out of a bar full of happy drunks.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 09:23 PM

Honestly, that woman sounds no more of an asswipe than her husband.

 

Why would the fucknut want to get his tires rotated with his wife in the truck? A man does that kind of stuff on a weekday after work not on valuable weekend time. She's begging him for a pack of smokes and get to the lake and he's being a dick.

 

She's losing her temper and he just needs to give her a few kind words to help her chill out, but won't do it, just keeps pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. He might be a wonderful husband, but this clip doesn't support him as being anything other than a passive-aggressive doucheplug.

 

Agreed, he's baiting her like a champ.  They deserve each other.

On the other hand, she may be along for the ride because she's one of those "we should do everything together!" types.

 

Another reason she may be along for the ride...

roughly 3:30 in, I'm not sure I heard correctly,   she needs to get her car's oil changed, but can't do it herself "because of the interlock thing" and needs to ask someone to help.

 

"interlock" as in "court-mandated mobile breathalyzer that requires you to blow non-drunk air before the car will start"?

 

hmmmmmm  

 

court mandated interlock = history of alcohol/substance abuse

and if she can't get the oil changed due to the interlock, what exactly does she have in her cup in the video???

 

doubt the dude had to egg her on to flip the eff out.



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 09:41 PM

The only thing this vid is missing is a giant fuking bbq fork sticking out of the guy's left hand.

 

 

And no, you can't ask.....



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 09:44 PM

And on another note, I think this explains the gay lifestyle much better than any Ellen Show could.....



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Posted 25 July 2013 - 10:02 PM

they are both assholes.



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 01:28 AM

I saw the title to this thread and thought it was about my ex girlfriend.  Close enough.
 
Here's some background on the crazy one in the video:
http://gawker.com/ma...pload-868449134
 
http://gawker.com/te...ad-be-896965566

Jim says he knew it was truly over when his wife defriended him on Facebook.

Well, there's no turning back from that.

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 01:53 AM

This thread needs music.

 



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 02:32 AM

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 03:23 AM

Just overall bad  -
 
Just think, some parents would not blink if the kid puts her feet up on the overhead and screams /  whines on and on and the kid thinks that 'it' is ok to do that any time they want.
 
I do not think it is fair to tape and post her vid unless showing it to a judge but, that is just me.
 
Sail safely!


And texting/facebooking all her friends is?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending him, I just think they are both asshats.

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 10:11 AM

Can't

Understand

Normal

Thinking



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 11:09 AM

Can't
Understand
Normal
Thinking


Ha!

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 11:53 AM

you-went-full-retard-never-go-full-retar



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 11:53 AM

Granted the guy was being kind of a douche-  rotating the tires?  Really?  I think that can wait a little while.

 

But still, her behavior was really something.   Have dealt with some similar stuff and worse over the years.....



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 11:53 AM

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 12:18 PM

I think she posts on PA a bit?

 

Could be any of a few handles.



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 12:31 PM

I think she posts on PA a bit?
 
Could be any of a few handles.

She did act a little "Grumpy" in that video.

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 12:44 PM

in other news...

 

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 12:46 PM

I think she posts on PA a bit?
 
Could be any of a few handles.

She did act a little "Grumpy" in that video.

 

A little Grumpy?

 

That's prejudice!



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 02:31 PM

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Posted 26 July 2013 - 06:15 PM

I dare him to close his eyes and try to go to sleep once she finds out he posted this on YouTube.

 

One word.  Bobbitt.



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 08:07 PM

I must be getting soft in my advancing age, but while I shook my head watching that, I just felt sad. Sad for her, sad for him, sad for them.

 

In our almost 4 years together, I've had one irrational fit, and to make matters worse, I'd had a week or so to spin myself into a frenzy.  When I let loose, he didn't pull out his phone, tape it and throw it on YouTube.  He gave me a hug, apologized, told me he loved me and was sorry for what I perceived was a wrong on his part.  He let me get it out. He didn't engage me or fight back.  He didn't laugh at me. That taught me a lot, and when the tables have been turned--he's been upset with me for something--I let him have his say, apologize, and reaffirm my commitment.  For some reason, I suspect we'll last a lot longer than the 15 months these two did.



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 08:11 PM

Those two? Make-up sex addiction.     



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 09:33 PM

That video is pretty f'ing sad.



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Posted 26 July 2013 - 11:08 PM

I dare him to close his eyes and try to go to sleep once she finds out he posted this on YouTube.

 

One word.  Bobbitt.

ouch!



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Posted 27 July 2013 - 06:39 AM

 

speaking of meltdowns



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Posted 27 July 2013 - 10:57 AM

Might as well complete the set-

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 02:38 PM

she must be good in bed...



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Posted 27 July 2013 - 06:02 PM

It is pretty apparent that this tantrum was not unusual otherwise he wouldn't have had the tape ready. My guess is she acts this way EVERY time she doesn't get her way. There are a lot of guys, including me, who could never get their tires rotated on a weekday and sometimes the lake just has to wait. He was certainly baiting her. But if she has been shredding him on Facebook, I get why he felt the need to do this.

 

It is ultimately, though, a very sad tale and makes me appreciate my wonderful wife of 27 years and how well we each allow each other room to do what makes us happy. I'm about to go watch her tennis match. Don't really want to but she likes seeing me in the stands. Small price to pay to make her feel loved and supported.



#51 On the Hard

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 06:04 PM

she must have been good in bed.....that first time

 

 

Edited

 

Amazing that he didn't see this coming before he slipped that ring on her finger



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Posted 27 July 2013 - 06:50 PM

Yes, he baited her. They're both trailer trash that deserve each other. what a disappointing commentary our society.

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 11:45 PM

Yes, he baited her. They're both trailer trash that deserve each other. what a disappointing commentary our society.

 

Exactly.



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Posted 28 July 2013 - 09:51 AM

Why are you posting in this thread?? You could post here on weekdays! Your posts can wait. I just need some cigarettes. Let's stop posting and get some cigarettes. And I want to go to the lake. We already paid for our boat. I just want to go sail. Take me to the lake!! What's the matter with you guys ?? Why are we stilll at our keyboards? Lets go to the llaaaaa kkkkkkk eeeee

I never get my way here. We are always ousting when we all should be at the lake!! Lets go to the lake.

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Posted 28 July 2013 - 11:31 AM

Honestly, that woman sounds no more of an asswipe than her husband.

 

Why would the fucknut want to get his tires rotated with his wife in the truck? A man does that kind of stuff on a weekday after work not on valuable weekend time. She's begging him for a pack of smokes and get to the lake and he's being a dick.

 

She's losing her temper and he just needs to give her a few kind words to help her chill out, but won't do it, just keeps pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. He might be a wonderful husband, but this clip doesn't support him as being anything other than a passive-aggressive doucheplug.

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Posted 28 July 2013 - 04:33 PM

I must be getting soft in my advancing age, but while I shook my head watching that, I just felt sad. Sad for her, sad for him, sad for them.

 

In our almost 4 years together, I've had one irrational fit, and to make matters worse, I'd had a week or so to spin myself into a frenzy.  When I let loose, he didn't pull out his phone, tape it and throw it on YouTube.  He gave me a hug, apologized, told me he loved me and was sorry for what I perceived was a wrong on his part.  He let me get it out. He didn't engage me or fight back.  He didn't laugh at me. That taught me a lot, and when the tables have been turned--he's been upset with me for something--I let him have his say, apologize, and reaffirm my commitment.  For some reason, I suspect we'll last a lot longer than the 15 months these two did.

See, why do you have to ruin a perfectly typical SA thread by bringing all your fancy balance, reason and maturity?






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