This hasn't been gate keeping. So for this thread has been unbelievably supportive. Take another look at Ruminator's reply. BeatmongerZ said "Nothing about this screams anything besides complete unmitigated disaster." This is true just barely short of 100% of the time. Ruminator has provided a carefully thought out way of dodging this bullet if you'll just listen.
And if you think this is gate keeping, just be grateful that the regular SA welcoming committee hasn't show up yet asking for pics of your girlfriends tits and calling you a moron.