I think you'd be very happy with the 36.7. It has a wonderful interior for cruising (better than 109 or 10R), is very easy to sail single handed, and is quite hard to beat for the price. We have an older one ('02) and touch wood she's been problem free for us.
There are a good number of 36.7s that have been converted to masthead asyms; it's a very straight forward job (most are using Trogear) and all the owners are super happy with it.
Even though you don't plan to race much, there is an active class full of great people who are more than happy to help a new owner get their boat sor