My wife's brother was the executor for their mother and was like that.
They haven't spoken since - and never will.
Do your family a favour and assign professionals as executor - wills bring out the ugliness in ways you can't imagine until you've seen it - worse than divorces.
I've rarely seen...
When my dad couldn't look after himself and came to live with us it was fine for a couple of years but then we noticed him starting to fade intellectually (he had a microbiology PhD so it was a big thing).
We figured it was due to a lack of stimulation since our place is a bit isolated so he...
Ask her all the questions about your family history now.
Go over all the old family photos with her and get the people named.
I couldn't believe how much of that stuff went away with my dad.