Touching candor? I think there is some fibbing about ages. Plan to ask the boy toy what kind of boat dad has and if dad wants to come along.A very good site for lonely women to meet their 'perfect captain". Please take a look at https://www.seacaptaindate.com/
If one uses the knife best one knows how to sail that boat. Or use radio.Or have a good knife and can of mace, and know how to use them.