This is an extremely small world.I was also a coxswain on a varsity 8 racing out of Vespers in the early to mid 80’s. I remember seeing Jack Kelly jogging around all the time. He died doing what he loved. My Mom was from the Main Line and was often mistaken for Grace Kelly.
The crew went to Henley but my parents were too poor so I stayed stateside. They finished 2nd. Not bad for some Yanks!