I made a conscious decision in my early 20s that boats and sailing were going to be central to my life. That meant turning down law school, and pursuing a different graduate degree that I thought would get me closer to my goal.
Even that proved not to be a direct-enough route, and I ended taking yet another path when offered a job as an editor of a sailing magazine.
That was the functional equivalent of mainlining sailing heroin for me, giving me the opportunity to live and breathe nothing but boats and sailing, in one form or another, and in one professional capacity or another, for the next 40+ years.
The hard part of this was maintaining some balance and perspective on the rest of life. I was a pretty miserable failure at that.
Some people can have it all, but most of us can't. Choose wisely, and don't second-guess yourself. If you really love it, you will find a way to do it.
Even that proved not to be a direct-enough route, and I ended taking yet another path when offered a job as an editor of a sailing magazine.
That was the functional equivalent of mainlining sailing heroin for me, giving me the opportunity to live and breathe nothing but boats and sailing, in one form or another, and in one professional capacity or another, for the next 40+ years.
The hard part of this was maintaining some balance and perspective on the rest of life. I was a pretty miserable failure at that.
Some people can have it all, but most of us can't. Choose wisely, and don't second-guess yourself. If you really love it, you will find a way to do it.